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Pamela lammersen
 

Headstone Photography Etiquette


I am interested in doing b/w photography of old headstones in graveyards but I am not sure if there is an 'etiquette' when doing this. I am worried about offending someone. There are so many beautiful old, old, old headstones out there and I really want to experiment with them on film. Can anyone help me with, is this offensive or not? Do I need permission from family?
Thanks for your comments!


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April 17, 2003

 

Damian P. Gadal
  I wouldn't consider it offensive, but, I'd check the the caretakers of the place first. Some places don't what any photography, some don't mind.... Also, during the week is probably better then the weekends...

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April 20, 2003

 

Pamela lammersen
  Thanks damian, I should of thought of contacting the caretaker but it didn't even enter my mind... I will do that and hope my wee experiments in headstones work out (kind of morbid, huh). Thanks again.


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April 20, 2003

 

Sue B
  My opinion is that it's not offensive because it's a public monument in a public place. If you're taking pictures to sell or publish, it would be wise to ask the family's permission. It's also a good idea (as already stated) to let the caretaker know you're going to be taking pictures. I don't think they care about the pictures, but they do like to keep an eye on cemeteries to keep down any vandalism, so you're more welcomed if you contact the caretaker first - if you can find the caretaker. Sometimes I can't find them, esp. for small country cemeteries, but someone is always keeping an eye on those, because I've never been to one where someone doesn't "stop by" to see what I'm up to - and I say, good for them! Also, if the cemetery gates are locked, I don't trespass. I agree with you that some of the stones are beautiful. Some are getting worn too, so I see it as a preservation project of sorts - already some of the inscriptions are illegible. I sometimes send a copy of the picture to the caretaker if the stone is really old and I get a good copy, so they can have it for their records.

Sue


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May 13, 2003

 

Barbara Senier
 
 
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Headstone
Lower Marsh Creek Presbyterian Cemetary, Gettysburg, PA

Barbara Senier

 
 
Hi, Pamela. It's gratifying to know that I am not the only one taking morbid photos of headstones! I "specialize" in stones that have carvings reminiscent of folk art (almost always pre-1820).

I don't ask permission unless there are signs posted such as "No Trespassing" or "Private Property." Unlike Sue, no one has ever approached me while I was shooting to ask what I was doing. To my way of thinking, unposted cemetaries are public places that are frequently visited by relatives & friends of those buried there. Also by geneologoists.

Here's a shot of my favorite stone. Thought you might enjoy comparing with one of your favorites since each stone is unique.


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May 14, 2003

 
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