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Maria M
 

Approaching strangers


Does anyone have any special techniques in taking portraits of strangers?

I am a 16 year old female, so I don't think I look too intimidating, but I can't get over my shyness. I am already starting my business and I want to buff up my portfolio with more interesting faces.

Any advice would be very much appreciated!


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January 03, 2007

 
- Gregory LaGrange

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  Keep in mind that being female makes you about 10 times more believable than being a male when it comes to asking somebody if you could take their picture because it would make a good photo.
Plus matter-of-fact confidence will surprise you of how well it works. Confidence that conveys the feeling that while you realize that it may sound unusual for somebody to be asked about getting their picture taken, it's not unusual for you to do the asking, because you've done it before.
You make people feel that that is something that's unique but still a routine, you'll get more cooperation than you first imagined.
But lay off excessive flattery.


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January 03, 2007

 

Mark Feldstein
  Greetings Maria. I agree with everything that Greg said. But to add tyo it a bit, if you're talking about doing "street phototgraphy" that's kind of a social art in itself and mastering it, like any thing else I guess, takes practice.

The main keys in street photography, I think anyway, is don't try and B.S. your subject after you make contact with them. Just tell them what you want to do, introduce yourself and explain why you want to photograph them. Then, you should have them sign a model release and offer them a buck with the release for doing so. And sure, you gotta be somewhat careful doing that kind of work these days.

As for portraits in a more controlled setting, one of the best things you can do is engage the subject in conversation, get them to talk about themselves, what they like to do, hobbies, work, cars, friends, relationships, anything. They'll likely start to loosen up. Might take awhile, some relax faster than others.

Greg's also right in that you get into a routine and after awhile, it'll come pretty easily and in fact naturally to you. One thing I like to tell people sitting for their portraits with me is "It's better you're over there than me. " That usually cracks them up, for a lot of reasons. (No comments on my mug please....LOL !!!)

Take it light.
Mark


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January 03, 2007

 

Samuel Smith
  you've been a member here since you were 14.
making a visit to your gallery was well worth it.i can't believe your shy.you have many visionary photos.
thank you for sharing.
the release part I agree with.
but I would suggest you carry a few of your better shots,and from your gallery it might be hard to pick a few,to show your new frinds what your trying to achieve.
approach them as old friends,your sincerity and genuine humility will entrust them completely.offer some photos as compensation.
you have a sincere and professional approach to your photography and will portray them in such a great light.
visit her gallery folks and you'll see what I mean.
i'm impressed,sam


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January 03, 2007

 
- Gregory LaGrange

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  Yeah, mermaid and Nicky(think it was titled Nicky) were good portraits. Since it was brought up by Scraggly Beard, having sincerity on your side keeps you from being nervous about making up something that sounds convincing, or is guaranteed to get them to volunteer. You won't have to remember what story you said to someone.


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January 03, 2007

 

Debby A. Tabb
 
Maria,
I more then agree with Gregory and Samuel,
Your work is wonderful, and I can tell you that getting over that shyness is very hard, but you will.
I promise.
Having a card ,such as a bussiness card you have made for yourself helps as well.
It can have your number, but I would make a few with out as well, maybe just a web site( for those you aren't looking for future business from, but just find them intresting at the moment)
This is something that you can walk up and hand the person, a "door opener"
That you can refer to , the fact that you are a artist.
This gives you eaze, you have something you are showing them and to talk about. And the Person you approch feels complimented a artist is intrested in them and they may feel your credible.
they have something in thier hand and you are not a stocker or PI of some sort, or.....
Just a thought,I hope this helps,
Debby


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January 04, 2007

 
- Gregory LaGrange

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  Actually you have a lot more good ones than just those two, I hadn't look at them.
You're good at creating a mood and like your use of just a little make-up and a prop for color and drama.
Go ahead and start experimenting. You've taken pictures of two ladies in China Town. Keep going.


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January 05, 2007

 

Rebecca A. Steed
  Hi Maria, there's not a whole lot I can add that the others haven't said except what has helped me in the past.
Approaching someone with a smile, the honest reason you want to take their picture (because the honest reason will probably be flattering enough), getting a model release signed and offering to send them an 8x10 of the photo should help. And you never know when you've met people who are willing to be future models for you. People like the idea of getting something, so receiving a copy of the final product is nice.
I'm a 24-year-old American woman living in Europe, so I have to use a lot of gestures instead of words. Don't worry, you will get over your embarrassment the more you do it. Have confidence in your work and yourself, and you will do great in this business.


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January 05, 2007

 

Rebecca A. Steed
  By the way Maria, I responded before I looked at your gallery.
You have a natural, raw talent and you will go far here. Wow, great gallery, great style and I don't know what you are shy about. Take a couple photos with you when you ask people. They won't turn you down.


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January 05, 2007

 

Jane M
  Maria - Are you interested in photographing more children or adults? I think your approach might differ depending on that. If you're starting a portrait business you can offer free sessions and often get interesting clients who are willing to experiment a little.
Just to echo what others have said, your gallery is superb and is one of the best portrait galleries I've seen on BP - well done! Nice lighting, creative and good PS skills :-)


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January 05, 2007

 

Maria M
  Wow, thank you very much everyone! I'm planning on getting a small portfolio printed up to carry around with me, as well as business cards and I will definitely be honest with people! Thanks so much <3


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January 05, 2007

 

Samuel Smith
  sorry maria,but somehow bp disallowed my post.
all my best.
for you could be an instructor.you have a vision.
no whining,no what if's
all my best,sam


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January 05, 2007

 

Molly A. Galloway
  Just walk right up to them and tell them what you are doing and why. Most people will be more that willing to help.


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January 08, 2007

 

Debbie Del Tejo
  Maria, I saw your gallery.
You have eye and you have the talent....I aplaud you. Go now and make us all PROUD!


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January 08, 2007

 

Maria M
  Thanks again everyone! I plan to use these techniques this weekend!


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January 08, 2007

 
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