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Barb at Bear's Tooth Pass 2006


 
  Barb at Bear's Tooth Pass 2006
Barb at Bear's Tooth Pass 2006

Barbara E. Gould

 
 
 
- Susan M. Reynolds

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What a great place for a bike ride and photo too! I remember from your gallery the other photos of you and Ron looked like the same place...I pray God comforts your heart each day.
God bless,
~S~


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June 05, 2009

 

Barbara E. Gould
  Yes, we visited this place many times. And I have gone back a few times since his death, but in a car :( ....
Thank you for you prayers. I need them. It's been almost 3 years, (wow) and thought that it would get easier...but it hasn't, I miss him.
Thanks again for your comments!
Barbara


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June 05, 2009

 
- Susan M. Reynolds

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  It would be hard to go back on a bike...
On June 2 it was the three and a half year mark for us...our Will was taken on Dec 2, 2005, but it still feels like it just happened, yet it feels like forever since I've seen his smile, heard his laughter and gotten to give him a hug and kiss. It is still hard to even breathe sometimes because of the pain. I heard a song written by a father that lost his daughter. It states that grief is not something you get over, but something you go through.
You might find some encouragement from his songs. Here is a link to his website where you can hear samples of the songs. The one I mentioned above is on cd 3 More Songs From The Journey.
http://www.everashleymusic.com/links.html
Someday, maybe you could have a memorial motorcycle ride in Ron's honor and donate the funds raised for a cause Ron was passionate about. We did that for Will calling the "That's How I Roll Will Reynolds Memorial Ride - since he always said "That's How I Roll", My husband rode Will's motorcycle-we had a lunch and raffle at the end. We would like to make it an annual event. We raised funds for the Sean Sullivan Project that reaches out to families that have lost a child...anyway,
I hope the songs and idea may help, I will keep you in my prayers.
4ever loving my Will,
Susan


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June 05, 2009

 

Barbara E. Gould
  I've driven twice since. I dont have a bike yet, but I will try. It was such a big part of my life growing up and with him. It's a wonderful way to travel.
I miss his smile and hugs and we spent everyday together. Even though he was "just" my boyfriend, we were also best friends and I loved him with ALL my heart!
I agree with the grief statement, realizing I will never get over him, but I will continue to live and always remember.
Thanks for the site, I have bookmarked it and will check it out.
Thanks again Susan,
Barbara


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June 05, 2009

 
- john forrant

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  I love your photos Barb. You love for Ron continues to grow as he guides you in you life and photography.


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June 05, 2009

 

Geri Schwarz
  I was once told by a nursing instructor that death comes because God's purpose for that person was fulfilled and he was ready to take them home. Even when the purpose is not clear to us, it comforts me to know that a lost loved one touched this world in some way and it was satisfying to God. How powerful that our loved ones, even those we lose too early, have done such deeds in this crazy world. I don't know if this helps or not, but I've always found it to be comforting.


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June 05, 2009

 

Sonya L. Hatfield-Hall
  Barb and Susan,

I don’t know the circumstances surrounding your great losses, but the love for Ron and Will are written in your words and read between the lines. Every time you press the shutter release and capture that special moment, their finger is on top of yours guiding you to press, not a fraction of a second too early or too late.

Every time I step into the kitchen to fry chicken, my grandmother is with me with every piece I roll in flour and place in the hot oil to every bite I take. She taught me how to cook. She died unexpectedly when I was nine. In December, I’ll be 50.

With every nail I drive or seed I plant, I feel my grandfather guiding me. He’s there letting me know the right time to plant even without knowing the signs. He taught me how to garden.

No longer do I ride horses, but the first time I showed my horse after my godfather’s death, I could feel him astride the horse with me. He taught me how to ride.

It is these thoughts and feelings that help me through daily life. Those gone are always in your heart and memories and only a prayer away. Take your arms, wrap them around yourself and give yourself a hug, no they are not physically there, but you can feel them.

I am a great fan of NASCAR and one of the most profound statements about the loss of a loved one came from Richard Petty when his grandson Adam was killed during practice. I carry it with me always as we all tend to ask, “Why?” When Richard was asked about Adam, he replied, “You can’t put a question mark where God has put a period.”

I believe in what Geri said about once a person has fulfilled their mission on earth, they go home. Take comfort in this knowledge as it make you a stronger person more aware of what impact your actions, words, photographs have on the world around you.

Blessings, Peace, and Prayers,
Sonya


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June 06, 2009

 
- john forrant

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  Wow Sonya. I did not know I was going to see such great photography and get such great philosophy too. yes, Our loved ones are with us for all times. We honor them by living life to our fullist potential. I love that quote from Richard Petty.


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June 06, 2009

 

Sonya L. Hatfield-Hall
  Yes, John, I carry the Richard Petty quote everywhere I go.


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June 06, 2009

 

Barbara E. Gould
  Thank you all so much for your kind words. I know that I am here in this group for a reason!
Life is different for me now, and I see things so differently. My hope is that I can touch people with my photography and my story and get the word out that we should slow down and see the many wonders around us; as photographers, I believe we all feel that way.
Take a breath, take your time, enjoy...
Barbara
I love the quote from Petty!


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